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About two years ago, I came to them for advice about my mother, who lives with us.
Now, I receive individual counseling for myself, my wife, and my mother, and they provide comprehensive support for our family, addressing each of our various concerns.
Personally, I feel very reassured and grateful that they listen to me comprehensively about not only my mother, but also my children and my work.
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I used to interact with my child solely based on my own values, thinking things like, "Normally, it would be like this," or "Why can't they do something so normal?" I was experiencing a constant rollercoaster of emotions, feeling like I wanted to give up every day.
However, looking back on these past three months of counseling with my child, I feel that not only has my child changed, but my own feelings and actions have also shifted.
It's difficult to put episodes and my feelings into words, but it's crucial. Receiving advice from the therapist's professional perspective on what the problems are and what's important has given me many insights.
By incorporating these insights into my own life, I feel I can approach my child more positively, cherishing each step of the process, and I'm incredibly grateful for that.
I'm so glad I mustered the courage to email the therapist and take that first step.
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Before I knew it, eight months had passed since my first listening session. I contacted you to ask for advice about interpersonal relationship issues.
I learned about Mezzo Pare when I couldn't find a solution on my own, felt so overwhelmed and worn down that tears started to flow. I still vividly remember the power of those warm words when I received a reply the same day I filled out the inquiry form: "Don't worry. There's still a lot you can do. So go to sleep in peace tonight."
I often have many realizations while talking with the counselor during counseling sessions, and I often feel a sense of accomplishment as they work together to unravel the tangled feelings that I couldn't put into words myself, even though they were undoubtedly there.
I would recommend Mezzo Pare as a necessary counseling center for adults like us.
I hope it can be a lifeline for people living in Yamaguchi Prefecture who have troubles they can't tell anyone about, and for those in pain who just want someone to listen.
(Translated by Google)
I recently started consulting and receiving your help.
I was having trouble with how to interact with my son, so I went to counseling, and the counselor never criticized my parenting methods up to that point, but instead gave me advice on how to interact with my son in a way that is appropriate. I hope that by spending intimate time with my son alone through play therapy, which is usually not possible with other children around, I can make some changes that will make things easier for both him and me.
I would appreciate your help in this regard as well.
(Translated by Google)
We are concierges for all kinds of concerns, including child-rearing, work, family, and business management. We are all facing the same direction and can solve problems together. If you live in Shunan City or Kudamatsu City and have any worries, please don't bear them alone, come and talk to us.
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This is a place that gives me the time to "be close to my child's heart," something that seems so obvious yet is so difficult to do.
When I decided to face head-on the troublesome parts of my child that I had been ignoring and the difficulties of life that I had been ignoring, I left a message to the teacher on the website.
Every time I spend time with the teacher, I am reminded of the true essence of child-rearing.
With an expert's perspective, she gives me a deeper understanding of what I can do as a mother "now," taking into account my child's "current" situation and characteristics.
When I put her advice into practice, I strangely feel like I'm regaining my confidence as a mother.
I used to be overwhelmed by information, my head would become confused with thoughts of "should" and "must," and I would be unable to move forward, but the teacher's every word, which hit the nail on the head, felt so natural and made perfect sense, and strangely satisfying.
I am grateful that she creates an environment that is close to my child's heart, while also being close to me as a mother.
(Translated by Google)
During my time with the teacher, I report on my life, what I've noticed, and what I should have done based on my experiences. He listens carefully, soothes me, and waits until I can feel and think for myself. The teacher has been supporting my children, who have unique personalities, to become independent so that they can live in society as themselves, and has been supporting me (parents) for a long time in how I will live my life as adults.
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I come here to talk about work and child-rearing. I live my life surrounded by a variety of emotions, and each time I receive help unraveling the meaning of those emotions.
When you change your perspective, you can see things you've overlooked. This is a place where you can become aware of that perspective.
(Translated by Google)
At first, I thought of counselling as a place where you just nod and listen intently.
In fact, the counsellor not only listens attentively, but also gives various insights. I would recommend that parents come and try this out if they are having trouble raising their children. I first went to talk about my child-rearing worries, but now I also get advice on a variety of issues, such as work and marriage.
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My child has been attending this center since he was in kindergarten. Through play therapy, my child is looked at and counseling is used to understand his current condition and what he is struggling with, and we work together to think about it.
Since becoming an adult, I have never had the opportunity to look deeply at myself, so each time I come, I have a great realization and both my child and I are able to move forward.
田嶋洋昭
約2年前に同居する母のことで相談に伺わせていただきました。
今では、私自身、妻、母の3人それぞれ個別にカウンセリングしていただいて、それぞれの様々な悩みから、家族をトータル的にサポートしていただいています。
個人的には、母のことはもちろん、子供のことや仕事のことまでトータル的に話を聞いていただけるので、とても心強い存在で感謝しています。
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About two years ago, I came to them for advice about my mother, who lives with us.
Now, I receive individual counseling for myself, my wife, and my mother, and they provide comprehensive support for our family, addressing each of our various concerns.
Personally, I feel very reassured and grateful that they listen to me comprehensively about not only my mother, but also my children and my work.
tomokolkhoz
一年前から月イチでお世話になっています。
子育ての事、家族のこと、その他、人間関係やいろんな困り事にいつも寄り添ってくださいます。
私の場合、話しを聞いて頂いている間に自然と考えが整っていくので、とても助かっております。
対話だけにとどまらず、トランポリンや塗り絵を使ったリラックス法の指導もあります。
毎月、気持ちが少し整うだけで安心感が得られて元気が出ます。本当にありがとうございます✨
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I've been seeing them once a month for the past year.
They are always there to support me with child-rearing, family matters, and other issues, including relationships and various other problems.
In my case, I find that my thoughts naturally become more organized while they listen, which is very helpful.
They don't just talk; they also teach relaxation techniques using trampolines and coloring books.
Just being able to calm my mind a little every month gives me a sense of relief and makes me feel more energized. Thank you so much!✨
ohina 3
｢普通だったら○○なのに｣｢どうしてこんな普通のことが出来ないんだろう｣など自分の価値観だけで子供と接し、一喜一憂しながらも投げ出してしまいたいような不穏な毎日を送っていました。
しかし、親子でカウンセリングを重ねてきたこの3ヶ月を振り返ると、子供は勿論なのですが、自分自身の気持ちや言動が変化してきたことを感じています。
エピソードや自分の気持ちを言語化する事は難しいけれど大切なことですね。何が問題で何か大切なことなのか、先生の専門的な視点からのアドバイスがいただけることで、多くの気付きを得ることができました。
それらをフィードバックする事で、一つ一つの積み重ねを大切にしながら前向きに子供と向き合っていける、そんな気持ちになることができ大変感謝しています。
勇気を出して先生にメールし、一歩を踏み出すことができて本当に良かったです。
(Translated by Google)
I used to interact with my child solely based on my own values, thinking things like, "Normally, it would be like this," or "Why can't they do something so normal?" I was experiencing a constant rollercoaster of emotions, feeling like I wanted to give up every day.
However, looking back on these past three months of counseling with my child, I feel that not only has my child changed, but my own feelings and actions have also shifted.
It's difficult to put episodes and my feelings into words, but it's crucial. Receiving advice from the therapist's professional perspective on what the problems are and what's important has given me many insights.
By incorporating these insights into my own life, I feel I can approach my child more positively, cherishing each step of the process, and I'm incredibly grateful for that.
I'm so glad I mustered the courage to email the therapist and take that first step.
ai
最初に話を聴いてもらって気がつけば8ヶ月になります。私は対人関係の悩みについての相談でご連絡したのがきっかけです。
自分の中での解決策がどうしても見いだせず、追い込まれてすり減って勝手に涙が出てくるくらい辛かった時にメゾパレの事を知りました。問い合わせフォームに自分の状況を書き込んだその日に、「安心してください。まだ出来ることは沢山ありますよ。だから今日は安心して眠りについてください」と返信があった時の温かい言葉の力は今でも鮮明に覚えています。
カウンセリングの中で先生と話していると多くの気付きがあり、自分では言葉に出来なかったけど、そこに絶対に存在しているはずの堅く絡まってしまった気持ちを、ひとつひとつ一緒に解いてもらえる手応えを感じる事が沢山あります。
メゾパレは大人になった私たちの為にも必要な悩みの相談室として私はおすすめしたいと思います。
誰にも言えない悩みを抱えている人、苦しくて誰かに話を聴いて欲しい山口県にお住いの方への助け舟となりますように。
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Before I knew it, eight months had passed since my first listening session. I contacted you to ask for advice about interpersonal relationship issues.
I learned about Mezzo Pare when I couldn't find a solution on my own, felt so overwhelmed and worn down that tears started to flow. I still vividly remember the power of those warm words when I received a reply the same day I filled out the inquiry form: "Don't worry. There's still a lot you can do. So go to sleep in peace tonight."
I often have many realizations while talking with the counselor during counseling sessions, and I often feel a sense of accomplishment as they work together to unravel the tangled feelings that I couldn't put into words myself, even though they were undoubtedly there.
I would recommend Mezzo Pare as a necessary counseling center for adults like us.
I hope it can be a lifeline for people living in Yamaguchi Prefecture who have troubles they can't tell anyone about, and for those in pain who just want someone to listen.
0907 totonu
先日より相談、お世話になりはじめました。
息子との関わり方に悩みがあった中、カウンセリングを受け、先生に今までの私の子育てを否定されることはなく、息子にあった関わり合い方のアドバイスを頂いております。プレイセラピーで普段他の子供がいる為出来ない、息子だけとの密な時間を通して少しでも息子や私が過ごしやすいように変わっていけたらなと思っています。
これらもよろしくお願いいたします。
(Translated by Google)
I recently started consulting and receiving your help.
I was having trouble with how to interact with my son, so I went to counseling, and the counselor never criticized my parenting methods up to that point, but instead gave me advice on how to interact with my son in a way that is appropriate. I hope that by spending intimate time with my son alone through play therapy, which is usually not possible with other children around, I can make some changes that will make things easier for both him and me.
I would appreciate your help in this regard as well.
増本真
子育て、お仕事、ご家族、経営、ありとあらゆるお悩みのコンシェルジュさんです。同じ方向を向いて、一緒に解決していけます。何かしらお悩みを抱えていらっしゃる周南市や下松市の方、1人で背負い込まずご相談されてみてください。
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We are concierges for all kinds of concerns, including child-rearing, work, family, and business management. We are all facing the same direction and can solve problems together. If you live in Shunan City or Kudamatsu City and have any worries, please don't bear them alone, come and talk to us.
M F
当たり前のようでなかなか出来ずにいた「子どもの心に寄り添う時間」を与えてくれる場所です。
やり過ごしてきた我が子の「困った部分」や、見ないようにしていた自分の「生きづらさ」に面と向かって向き合おうと決めた時、ＨＰから先生にメッセージを入れさせていただきました。
先生との時間は毎回、子育ての本質に気づかされます。
専門家ならではの視点で、子どもの「今」の状況や特性を踏まえ、母として「今」何が出来るのかを深く理解させてくれます。
実践していくと不思議と母としての自信を取り戻している感覚があります。
溢れ返る情報を目にしては「〜すべき、〜ねば」と頭の中がこんがらがって身動きがとれなくなっていた私には、先生の核心を衝いた一言一言がとても自然で、すとんと腑に落ちて妙に納得するのです。
子どもの心に寄り添いながら、母親である私自身にも寄り添う環境を作ってくださる事に感謝です。
(Translated by Google)
This is a place that gives me the time to "be close to my child's heart," something that seems so obvious yet is so difficult to do.
When I decided to face head-on the troublesome parts of my child that I had been ignoring and the difficulties of life that I had been ignoring, I left a message to the teacher on the website.
Every time I spend time with the teacher, I am reminded of the true essence of child-rearing.
With an expert's perspective, she gives me a deeper understanding of what I can do as a mother "now," taking into account my child's "current" situation and characteristics.
When I put her advice into practice, I strangely feel like I'm regaining my confidence as a mother.
I used to be overwhelmed by information, my head would become confused with thoughts of "should" and "must," and I would be unable to move forward, but the teacher's every word, which hit the nail on the head, felt so natural and made perfect sense, and strangely satisfying.
I am grateful that she creates an environment that is close to my child's heart, while also being close to me as a mother.
瀧本美智子
先生との時間は、生活の報告、自分の気づき、体験からどうしたらよかったの？などいろいろ聴いていただいています。ゆっくり聴いて、癒し、私が自分で感じたり考えたりできる迄待っててくださる感じです。先生は、凸凹個性の子どもが、自分らしく、社会で生きていけるような自立支援、大人(親)のこれからをどう生きるかを長く支援してくださっています。
(Translated by Google)
During my time with the teacher, I report on my life, what I've noticed, and what I should have done based on my experiences. He listens carefully, soothes me, and waits until I can feel and think for myself. The teacher has been supporting my children, who have unique personalities, to become independent so that they can live in society as themselves, and has been supporting me (parents) for a long time in how I will live my life as adults.
ココモモ
お仕事、子育てのことで通っています。いろんな感情の中で生活してきて、毎回その意味を紐解いていただいています。
見方を変えたら、見過ごしてきたことが見えてきたり。その見方を気づかせていただける場所です。
(Translated by Google)
I come here to talk about work and child-rearing. I live my life surrounded by a variety of emotions, and each time I receive help unraveling the meaning of those emotions.
When you change your perspective, you can see things you've overlooked. This is a place where you can become aware of that perspective.
コロン
カウンセリングというイメージを最初、私はひたすら相槌を打ち話を聞くという所だと思っていました。
実際は、傾聴だけでなく先生は様々な気づきを与えてくれます。子育てで、悩んだときに親御さんに一度受けていただきたいです。子育ての悩みで最初行きましたが、今は仕事や夫婦など色々聞いてもらっています。
(Translated by Google)
At first, I thought of counselling as a place where you just nod and listen intently.
In fact, the counsellor not only listens attentively, but also gives various insights. I would recommend that parents come and try this out if they are having trouble raising their children. I first went to talk about my child-rearing worries, but now I also get advice on a variety of issues, such as work and marriage.
ひつじママ
子供が幼稚園の頃から通っています。子供には、プレイセラピーを通して、私はカウンセリングを通して今どのような状態なのか、何に困っているのかを見ていただき一緒に考えてくれます。
大人になってから自分自身のことを深く見つめる機会がなかったので毎回、毎回の気付きが大きく子供も私自身も前に進めています＾＾
(Translated by Google)
My child has been attending this center since he was in kindergarten. Through play therapy, my child is looked at and counseling is used to understand his current condition and what he is struggling with, and we work together to think about it.
Since becoming an adult, I have never had the opportunity to look deeply at myself, so each time I come, I have a great realization and both my child and I are able to move forward.